How to take a compliment like a grown-up

If you are reading this, you may or may not be shy all the time, but you can likely relate to an old social dilemma: where does confidence leave off, and arrogance begin? Or, in more practical terms, how do you accept a compliment without inadvertently implying that it is nothing more than your due? Because, you know, it would be wrong to be publicly exposed as thinking highly of yourself. For some reason. 

Deeper self-concept issues notwithstanding, there really is an easy way to take a compliment. Simply follow these steps, and brace yourself for the barrage of praise from your loved ones, once the word gets out that they can now safely tell you how they feel! Who knows? You might even start to believe them after awhile. 

1. Say “Aww, thank you!”
       Be sure to smile - this all feels good, remember?

2. Compliment the complimenter on this compliment that made you feel good. Be specific. 
       If you make ‘em feel good right back, you balance the scales. Enjoy your boost - it’s paid for!

3.   Fooled you! There is no 3. Let us try some examples.
       
       “You look amazing, have you been working out?”
       “Aww, thank you! I started about a month ago. It feels so good that you can tell already”
    
       “Your baby is so happy, you must be a wonderful mom!”
       “Aww, thank you so much! I needed to hear that today”
    
       “I don’t know how you do it - you are never late for anything!”
       “Aww, thanks! I’ve been working on that, you are so kind to notice”